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Latex condoms, when used consistently and correctly, are highly effective in preventing the transmission of HIV, the virus that causes AIDS. Correct and consistent use of latex condoms can also reduce your risk for other sexually transmitted diseases.

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Your Safer Sex Questions Answered!

by Paul Moccio
Gay Men's Health Educator

Got a question for Paul?
Send it in now!

 

Dear Paul,
I love giving oral sex. Everyone tells me that oral sex is a very low risk activity for contracting HIV. Is it ok that I let a guy ejaculate in my mouth? And is it safer to spit or swallow?

 
My research shows that giving oral sex is one of the least risky behaviors with regards to contracting HIV. Many studies show that out of every 10,000 exposures to HIV through oral sex, only 6 of them contracted HIV. Thus, giving oral sex is only a .06 percent chance of contracting it from an infected partner. When it comes to spitting or swallowing, I say go with personal preference—mine personally is to shoot outside the body, period. This would be your safest choice of all.
 

Dear Paul,
I
'm a gay guy and I bottom during sex. Before meeting up with a guy, I douche to clean myself out. A friend told me that she heard douching was bad for you because it creates yeast infections, but that's for women. Is it ok for a man to douche prior to anal sex?

 

There are many conflicting reports as to whether or not anal douching is harmful to a man. (FYI, we're really talking about enemas here, but some people call it douching if it's for hygiene issues versus health issues.)

There are lots of harmful side effects of douching that mustn't be overlooked. First, douching disrupts the mucosal barrier of the rectum and thus facilitates entry of HIV into the bloodstream. Douching dries out the walls of the rectum, thus increasing your chance of tears in the delicate tissue. Your colon has a natural “sweating” reaction that helps keep its walls lubricated to decrease tearing and abrasions. By douching and getting rid of this natural sweat, which won't have time to build up prior to sex, you're increasing your chances of tissue tears in the rectum.

If you must douche, there are a few more precautions I want you to know. First, make sure you use a new, clean enema kit. Old ones can hold bacteria and if you reuse it, you run the risk of shooting new, harmful bacteria into your rectum. Extensive douching could result in dehydration and electrolyte imbalances. Also, over time, overuse can result in decreased bowel function. This is due to the temporary excitement of the nerves in the colon.

My take on it all is, do if you feel you must, but be safe. Use the precautions I described above…. Don't overdo it and follow the instructions on the enema package. And always remember to practice safer sex precautions to reduce your risk of transmission of HIV and STDs.

 

Dear Paul,
How effective and safe is the HIV vaccine?

 

Wow, that's a big topic. While there is no cure for HIV/AIDS, the development of a safe, effective, and affordable vaccination may be the best solution to controlling transmission of HIV among uninfected individuals. These vaccines are still in clinical trials. The vaccines are made from man-made materials that do not contain HIV. Common side effects of the vaccine include low-grade fever, soreness at the injection site and body aches.

The clinical trials are monitored by the FDA, and the participants are volunteers. These volunteers are fully informed of the processes and possible outcomes. Volunteers are counseled throughout the trials on how to reduce the risk of HIV infection. Volunteers can quit the trial at any time. FDA monitors can also recommend that a trial be discontinued if data indicates so.

Unfortunately, the vaccine is a long way off. Protect yourself now from HIV and you don't have to worry. If you'd like to know more about safer sex practices or are interested in a workshop or one-on-one education, send me an email to make an appointment and I'd be glad to sit down with you to educate you more on risk reductions.

 
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